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For Families

Your loved one deserves independence and support

Find peace of mind knowing your family member is living their best life with a caring, compatible roommate who supports their goals and wellbeing.

Life-sharing offers the independence of living in a real home with the support and safety your family needs.

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A Better Option

What is life-sharing?

Life-sharing is a supportive living arrangement where your family member shares a home with a carefully matched roommate who provides personalized assistance while treating them as an equal partner.

Unlike group homes, life-sharing offers more independence, privacy, and the chance to be part of a real community. Your loved one makes decisions about their daily life, pursues their interests, and builds genuine friendships.

  • One-on-one support, not rotating staff
  • Real home in a real neighborhood
  • Matched based on compatibility
  • Independence with a safety net
Roommates enjoying time together at home

Why families choose Homies

We understand the concerns families have—and we address them

Peace of Mind

Know your loved one is living with a thoroughly vetted, caring roommate who genuinely supports their wellbeing.

Real Independence

Life-sharing offers true independence in a real home, not a facility. Your family member makes their own choices.

Compatibility-Based Matching

We match based on personality, interests, and lifestyle—not just availability. Better matches mean lasting success.

Thorough Vetting

All roommates undergo FBI/DOJ background checks, reference verification, home inspections, and comprehensive training.

24/7 Support

Our team is available around the clock. If anything comes up, help is just a phone call away.

Family Involvement

Stay as involved as you want. We welcome family participation in the matching process and ongoing communication.

Your Peace of Mind

Thorough vetting you can trust

We know how important trust is when it comes to your loved one's care. That's why every supportive roommate goes through our comprehensive screening process.

From background checks to home inspections to ongoing training, we leave nothing to chance. And our 24/7 support means help is always available.

  • FBI & DOJ background checks
  • Multiple reference verifications
  • Home safety inspections
  • Comprehensive training program
  • Regular check-ins and monitoring
  • 24/7 emergency support
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The family journey

We guide you through every step of finding the right match

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Initial Conversation

We start by understanding your family's needs, concerns, and hopes. Share your loved one's personality, interests, and support requirements.

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Profile & Preferences

Together, we create a detailed profile that captures what makes your family member unique and what they're looking for in a roommate.

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Careful Matching

Our team reviews all profiles to find compatible roommates. We look at lifestyle, interests, location, and support needs to find the right fit.

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Meet Potential Matches

Your family meets potential roommates in person or virtually. Take all the time you need—there's no pressure to decide quickly.

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Smooth Transition

Once you've found the right match, we support a gradual transition. Your loved one can start with visits before moving in.

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Ongoing Partnership

Our relationship doesn't end at move-in. We provide continuous support and keep you informed every step of the way.

What families are saying

Hear from parents who found peace of mind through Homies

Verified Story
For years I worried about what would happen when I couldn't care for Eddie anymore. Homies found him a roommate who genuinely cares about him. Now I sleep at night knowing he's happy and safe.
Maria
Maria
Eddie's Mother, San Diego County
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Questions from families

Get answers to common questions about life-sharing for your loved one

Safety is our top priority. All supportive roommates undergo comprehensive FBI and DOJ background checks, multiple reference verifications, home safety inspections, and extensive training. We also conduct regular check-ins and are available 24/7 for any concerns.

As involved as you want! Many families participate in meet-and-greets, help with the transition, and maintain regular contact with the roommate. We encourage family involvement and keep you updated on how things are going.

Your loved one's happiness comes first. If a match isn't working, we'll work together to understand the situation and find a better fit. We support any transitions with care and ensure no one is left without support.

Typically 2-6 months, depending on your family member's specific needs and preferred location. We never rush the process—finding the right match is more important than finding a quick one.

Life-sharing services are funded through Regional Center, so there's typically no out-of-pocket cost to families. Contact us or your Regional Center service coordinator for specific details about your situation.

Absolutely! Life-sharing is about independence, not isolation. Your family member can visit, have you over, and maintain all their family relationships just like anyone else living on their own.

Roommates complete comprehensive training covering safety, communication, person-centered support, emergency procedures, and more. Training is ongoing, and we provide additional support for any specific needs.

Life-sharing means living in a real home with one compatible roommate—not a facility with multiple residents and rotating staff. Your family member has more privacy, choice, and the opportunity to be part of a genuine community.

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Questions? Call us at (805) 328-5132

Let's talk about your family's needs

Every family's situation is unique. Reach out to discuss how life-sharing could work for your loved one—no pressure, just information.

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